Sunday, August 23, 2009

Love and Happiness

Love is a beautiful thing when you have it. Love can also be a terrible thing when you have it. When you are in love for the right reasons, you can show it to the other person in the right ways. for example:










Trust is a beautiful thing that comes with having the right type of love. If you trust the person you are with, then nothing can break that or your love. Although there is the wrong type of trust that comes with relationships. And its something we like to call "open-relationships ". Now if you are in an open-relationship then chances are you trust the "main" person you are with to remember that you and him/her are together and just doing other people. But let me ask a question. If you are letting your girl/man go out and have sex with other people and they come back with an STD, is the trust broken then?? I don't know, that is why im asking.
Another way to show your love:
















Yes you guessed it, showing affection. This has to be one of the greatest acts of love you can show someone without using the "L" word. There are alot of ways to show affection too. You can: Kiss, Hug, or Hold hands in public
One more thing you can do to show someone that you love them is just tell them by having a good sourse of communication in your relationship. If you can't tell the person that you are with that you had a bad day at work then how can you tell them how you feel about them??




Yes love and relationships are wonderful things to have for the right reason. And with the right dedication you can have a fulfilling relationship that can turn into love that can last a life time. So the next time you choose to jump into a relationship and plan to fall in love, take a second to realize just how much work it is. Once you realize that, love can come as easy as breathing.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Importance of keeping a Diary, Journal, or Blog

This is my first blog and Im looking forward to seeing what my friends think about my writing skills. I have been writing for a very very very long time so it is a hobby of mine. My first blog is about the joy of keeping a journal, diary, and/or blog. And if you don't keep one, then maybe after reading this you will find a reason to start.

So let start with what can you write about. If you had a book to write about anything you wanted to, what would you write about?? Would you write about yourself?? Would you write to help other people?? The great thing about writing is that you can keep it for yourself or you can have people read it. Most journals are private but others can be as public as you want it to be. For example: Lets say there is a girl or guy that you like, and you write it down never to be seen. Then one day you can't take it anymore and you have to let then know. You already have something to show them. How?? rewrite a page of you journal/diary/blog and send or give it to them. Something that you wrote about them in confidence with be so special to them that they will just love it.

















One thing i do is write poetry (which will be coming soon). And i keep them in a journal. But when i have someone who i believe deserves one of them, I will rewrite it and give it to them. i have done that alot of times and it feels so good to know that something so special to me can now be so special to them.
Another good thing about keeping a journal/diary/blog is that you can blow off alot of steam and ease alot of stress do that. I remember thoes days of school when i just wanted to curl into a ball and drop out of school and to make matters worse, it seemed like no cared what i had to say about my issues at school. So what did i do?? I wrote and went from this:






To this:

Don't I look happy now?? Yes i do, and so can you. All you have to do is open a book with alot of paper in it. Think about what you want to write about and just write write write.

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